How fast can you 'unlove'?

Remember not to consider anything you think you know as unchanging. You can feel all the security you want, but the moment you cease to honor what has kept you safe, that's when it crumbles. The surprised snob will then be no more than an emotional homeless, prived of the thing he values most - for he could have dishonored nothing else.
And sometimes not even time can stop the crumbling of time. The moments are lost, the flowers have bloomed too soon, only to lie rotten and heartless in the ground beneath, right when you need their color most. And then, 'how do you pick up the threads of an old life?' They've changed almost as much as you have, just like those who walked them with you. But you can still believe the paths are yours to choose. Specially if you're planning to walk them alone.
Remember the difference between the past and the present - You - and you'll find how unpredictable the future really is, and how fearful you should be. Not frightened, but fearful. Not pessimistic, but fearful. Not shaking, but smiling and holding off to your present and whatever it has to offer.
The time is now. Take it.